Friday, July 31, 2009

Where Oh Where Have All The Chic Ladies Gone?


It's been a while since we've connected and I do apologize for staying away for so long.  

In my search for fifty-something Chic On The Street ladies I didn't fail. However, as you see, nary a one appears on this page.  Although they're out there strutting their chic selves on the sidewalks of Portland I was met with a firm hand when mentioning my mission.  Rather than feeling proud of their years these fashion conscious gals flat out refused to go public with any age that begins with a five. 

Now, I have to admit that until recently I stood side-by-side linking arms with my fellow pentagenarian females. That is, until one day it it struck me.  Who was I if not the sum of my years?  More importantly, who was I kidding and why did I care what anyone thought?  Like, what? - after fifty-seven years of life I should feel shame?   Who says that a woman never tells her age? Two grown sons, a four-year-old grandson and two-year-old granddaughter I have earned the stripes of of my years, dammit. 

Don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting that we, of a certain age (did I really just write that?) stop trying to make the most of what we still have. When it comes to strutting Chic On The Street, now, more than ever overall image is everything.  Therefore, dear readers, it is my hope that this posting serve as a reminder of just how fabulous we really are.

  • With an eye for fashion, our style is our own. Since body types vary not every woman can sport, for example, hipster jeans or, say, plunging necklines.  We say, if you got it highlight it using a low beam light.  In our opinion skin-tight hipster jeans (or anything skin-tight) is simply a no-no at our age.  As are mini-skirts, hot-pants and any neckline that plunges close to the navel. Despite a stunning-hit-the-gym-five-times-a week-body we know that the time has come to cover it up. 
  • We shimmer from within therefore there's no need for rocking- fashion- glitter.  Sequins are a thing of the past, unless worn sparingly as trim on a sweater, blouse, or dress - we won't even consider flaunting a single sequin on pants, skirts, or below the waistline on a dress. Accessories are where we shine; necklaces, earrings, bracelets, shoe clips, belts and handbags.  
  • We don't wear our daughter's clothes, though they are dying to wear ours.  We may be fashionistas but we are no fashion victims.  Our closets are filled with a collection of timeless clothes that over the years we've carefully chosen.  Since we understand the value of good craftsmanship, cut and fabric, we don't mind laying down dollars for pieces that we know will withstand the test of time.  Conversely, our younger counterpart's closets are  collections of what's-in-at-the-moment, purchased at prices that reflect the coming and going of teenage fashion.
  • We know how to mix bargains pieces with higher-priced quality pieces for a look that doesn't come across as contrived.  A Gap T worn with a favorite Armani skirt and Prada flats, for instance, or a Banana Republic crisp summer dress paired with a Gucci patent leather belt and bargain strappy flat sandals are fresh pulled together looks that will never go out of style.  Over the years we've collected quality pieces and the day has come when before going out shopping we first go to our closets, and then maybe a quick trip to stores such as The Gap, Nordstrom Rack, or Banana Republic to finish the look. 
  • We believe that shoes make an outfit.  We don't skimp on dollars when purchasing shoes unless, of course,  it's a pair of strappy sandals, espadrilles, or ballet flats that we intend to wear with our jeans, capris, or long bohemian skirt when off to the market or to brunch on the weekends.
  • When buying handbags we don't go on the cheap. Granted the price of handbags are out of control.  $1,500.00 upwards can make a gal faint flat on the floor.  Since we're not designer junkies, - labels don't boost our self-esteem - we never go there.  Instead we buy wonderfully crafted, quality bags for much less, given the caveat we're gonna have to open our wallets a little.  However, by shopping sales and visiting consignment boutiques we know we can shop on a budget and still have a quality bag.  We steer clear of fashion magazine  In Bags knowing that when the season is done, so are they. More importantly, they scream fashion victim (victim to a marketing ploy) which we are not. 
  • Wearing minimum makeup gives us a look that's youthful and fresh. Less is best. The matt look is aging;  we wear foundation, powder, and lipstick that leave a dewy finish. Neutrals on eyes look the best on us. 
Now go out there and show your true self.  Break a few rules if you must.  After all that's why we have them.

Cheers!

Rachael